How To Kiss

Most men want to learn how to initiate the first kiss. Before you can kiss a girl you need to be sure that she is ready to kiss you.

Here are few ways to find out if the girl wants to kiss you as well:

1. Gently stroke the hair of this girl and see how she responds.

2. Hold her hands and gently squeeze them.

3. Slowly brush her arm looking into her eyes.

Measure her responses to your moves. If she responds positively to two of those then you know she is ready to be kissed by you. Don’t expect her to do the same. She does not have to brush your arm, squeeze your hand or show any other form of affection to convey her feelings to you. As long as she does not object to your moves, you can safely assume she is ready to be kissed.

At this point take a step towards her or slowly pull her towards you. Then look into her eyes, slowly lean forward and gently kiss her on the lips. Start with a peck on her lips, followed by a longer kiss.

There is no need to pull back after you kiss her the first time. You could stay in the kiss position, take a look in her eyes and go for the long kiss.

It is possible that the girl may pull back when you go for the kiss even if she complied to all you tests.Don’t assume she does not like you or don’t want you to kiss her because she pulled back.

She might have pulled back because she was not expecting a kiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect a kiss at that moment.

Go for the kiss right after the above three tests. It will reduce the chances of girl pulling back.

If the girl does not want you to kiss her she will tell you or walk away from you. If she does neither of those and continues to stay and participate you can conclude that she wants to be kissed by you.

Test it again by looking in her eyes, stroking her hair and brushing her arms. If she missed these signals the first time, she surely will notice them this time.

If the girl is comfortable with you touching her again than you know she sees you as a romantic interest and you can go for the kiss again.You should have no problem getting a good kiss this time for she will be expecting it.

Here are few extra tips:

- Make sure to use some breath fresheners or mint before you kiss the girl.

- Don’t go pouring your emotions on the girl after the kiss. It makes you appear needy and clingy.

- Shave your face if you plan to go for the kiss. You don’t want to scratch her face.

- Don’t try to kiss her in front of her friends when you kiss her the first time.

- Don’t fight, convince or put pressure on the girl if she is not comfortable kissing. It might happen later if you do not appear needy or clingy. It is ok if she does not want to kiss right now.

- You can make things a bit more romantic by holding her hands or hold her on the hips when kissing. You could also whisper something in her ears between breaks from kissing. Try playing with her hair. Most girls love it. Whisper and go back for another kiss. Make it a long one this time.

- Don’t be another guy who waits for the end of the date to initiate the kiss. Kiss her early so it does not come across by the book.

- Continue your conversation or activity after the kiss. You do not want to make things awkward after the kiss.